Four weeks out: sort housing and budget. Three weeks: book the move and start downsizing. Two weeks: set up utilities and change your address. Final week: pack a survival box, confirm everything, and do the paperwork once you arrive.
4 weeks out
- Lock in your new place and read the lease.
- Set a moving budget (truck/movers, deposits, travel, setup).
- Research neighborhoods, commute, and basics like grocery stores.
3 weeks out
- Book a moving truck or movers (earlier is cheaper).
- Declutter — donate or sell what you won't haul.
- Start collecting boxes and supplies.
2 weeks out
- Schedule utilities and internet to start at the new place.
- File a change of address with USPS.
- Update your address with your bank, employer, and subscriptions.
- Use up perishable food and cleaning supplies.
Moving week
- Pack an 'open first' box: bedding, toiletries, chargers, snacks, basic kitchen.
- Confirm the truck/movers and your route.
- Do the move-in inspection and photograph any existing damage.
Once you arrive (within 30 days)
Most states require you to update your driver's license and vehicle registration within a set window after moving — often 30 days. Register to vote at your new address while you're at it. See the DMV guide for the full list.
Next up: 'Changing your address, license, and registration — the DMV survival guide.'
Get your DadgreeSettling in
Give yourself grace. Find your grocery store, a doctor, and a coffee shop you like — small routines make a strange place feel like home. Say yes to invitations; everyone there was new once.
Common questions
How do I make friends in a new city?
Repeat exposure beats one-off events. Join a recurring thing — a gym class, a league, a club, a volunteer shift — and show up regularly. Familiar faces become friends.
Movers or DIY?
Short, light moves are fine DIY. For long distances or lots of heavy furniture, compare a few mover quotes — it's often worth it.